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Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

Welcome back once again, our lovely readers. Today we are going to be discussing the basics of BDSM relationships. What does it mean, where does the acronym come from, and how to get involved safely in this incredibly pleasurable universe? And more importantly, how it can encourage and take your crossdressing even further!

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Because I know I’m not the only one here into feminization, which is a big part of BDSM, I wanted you to know the best way to practice it. Here you will find the general rules of BDSM relationships and what you need to know before taking part blindly! Without further ado, let’s dip our toes in this sea of pleasure!

 

 

What Does BDSM Mean?

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Starting with the basics, let’s first get to know what BDSM stands for. BDSM is an acronym that has its origins in the early 90s, while the practices that it includes may date back to the beginning of humankind. It is a conjunction that refers to a lot of kinky erotic or sexual practices which I’m sure most of us here enjoy. The acronym includes the B&D, Bondage and Discipline, D&s, Dominance and submission, and S&M, Sadism, and Masochism. Note that the “s” in D&s is minuscule or lowercase to better represent the meaning of what it stands for. Moving forward to the present day, BDSM is used to describe interpersonal relationships that fall far from the “traditional” standards. In general, these practices come not alone, that’s why I think this acronym is so cleverly coined!

 

The Importance of Communication in BDSM

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

As I said before, BDSM includes a lot of different practices. In particular, bondage and discipline involve physical restraints and the use of gags that prevent the submissive part to communicate during the development of the often sexual act. This is why, as in any other consensual relationship, good communication is vital for the enjoyment of all parts involved. This not only requires the parties involved to talk beforehand about what they are expecting to get from the relationship.

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

During the act, it is key that they pay attention to each other to read if everything is going as planned and no limit is surpassed by no one. This is very important because as I said before, verbal communication can be impossible during the practices, especially in bondage. On top of that, if role-playing is involved, it may be confusing whether your partner(s) is having a bad time or only playing the part agreed.

 

Turns On and Turns Off

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Another aspect that has to be discussed beforehand, is particular turn-ons and turn-offs. Because, thankfully, each of us is unique, there might be things that are commonly included in BDSM that can be a deal breaker for any of the parts involved. Even though it may sound counterintuitive, no one has to buy the whole package when embarking on a BDSM relationship. Discussing fears, experiences, and turn-offs, among other aspects, will ensure that the experience isn’t ruined. On the other hand, to make the best of BDSM, letting the other know what arouses you will create a path that leads to incredible amounts of pleasure. Among these lines, the parts involved have to set boundaries that they are not willing to cross under any circumstance. If these boundaries are broken, it stops being a pleasurable experience of consensual sex and falls under the category of sexual assault.

 

Establishing a Safe Word

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Speaking about boundaries, before the action starts, it is of vital importance that a safe word is established. It is a word that determines the cease of all activity. This can happen either because a previously set boundary has been broken, or because one is not having a good time for whatever reason. Sometimes, even when the practices develop within said boundaries, anyone can get in a situation that is over their heads. Either because of inexperience, shyness, or whatever other reason you can think of, it is essential to respect the other’s wishes and try to understand their position. This can help the BDSM relationship to develop better and last longer in time, just like a fine wine. Bear in mind that the safe word has to be something you would not say during the normal development of the act. The weirder the word the better!

 

Get to Know Your Partner

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Of course, you don’t need to embark on a BDSM relationship with someone you knew all your life. It is oftentimes quite the contrary: casual meet-ups that end in these kinds of activities. Knowing your partner includes having these ground zero talks, establishing the safe word, and being mindful at all times of the other’s feelings and sensations. Needless to say, the more you know yourself, your kinks, as well as that of the other’s parts involved, will create more pleasurable moments for everyone.

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Reading your partner’s expressions and body language becomes crucial when verbal communication is impossible as it generally is. The more you know you’re the parties involved, the more you will get from the experience! Always be honest about your feelings, kinks, and insecurities to prevent any unwanted development of BDSM!

 

Feminization in BDSM

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

As you can imagine by now, feminization enters well within the territory of a D&s scenario. It is not the only one, but perhaps it is the most common. In this scenario, feminization can be encouraged and enforced, which frees one from most of the burden that comes from social stigma. Not only that, but it can also help you tap into your femininity in ways you’ve never imagined. The discipline part of BDSM will also give you a big reason to become more feminine!

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Lastly, I think that feminization in a BDSM relationship will keep you connected with that woman inside you and cultivate it even further. Don’t know what kind of outfits look good on you? Don’t worry! Your partner will let you know what kind of makeup or clothes you should get to look your best! It is also incredible to spice up your sex life and get to know the other side a lot better!

 

Role Playing as Part of the Experience

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

In the field of forced feminization, it is quite common to come across a myriad of role-playing scenarios. I’m sure you can imagine a pretty handful of those, am I right? Let’s explain some of the reasons why role-playing is amazing for experiencing your feminization in fullness. To begin with, while playing a role, you free yourself from any prejudices, conscious or not, that may be holding you back. It makes it easier for you to compromise with certain movements, mannerisms, clothes, etc. making you feel more comfortable during the experience. The defense mechanisms that are created by our fears and insecurities become totally invalidated by this “acting exercise”. Getting dolled up in your cutest maid outfit and cleaning your house is one hell of an experience, but doing so when expected to behave as a sissy maid at all times is exhilarating! You are expected to play the part you want making you delve further into your path to femininity!

 

Frequent Feminization Fantasies in BDSM

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

I’m sure if you’ve been crossdressing for a while, you are getting excited thinking about your favorite forced feminization fantasies. But in case you are only starting to taste these waters, let’s go over some of the most frequent ones to spark your imagination. A very classic is the schoolgirl/professor scenario. Needless to say, traditional gender roles see a reversal, where the male plays the part of the schoolgirl.

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

This scenario can improve if the lessons that the schoolgirl must attend are a masterclass in femininity! Also, the french maid scenario is not only one of the most common roles play scenarios, but also one of my favorites! Bear in mind that when discipline is applied in these cases, you don’t have to hurt or be hurt! It is mainly for fun and the pain tolerance level is very different for each and every one of us! Play the part safely and make sure you let your partner know about this!

 

Feel Free to Experiment

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

Once the ground rules are set and you all know what you are expecting out of the relationship, feel free to experiment and take things slowly if not sure. You have to make yourself clear about this, so whatever sensation you are looking to explore, can be done in a safe and controlled manner. Life is full of pleasures that many of us hide deep inside of ourselves, making us a bit unhappier. I think this is nonsense that we have to raise above with our everyday actions. Be it clothing, sexual roles, tradition, or whatever other imposing “standard” that society tries to impose on us. Be bold and look and fight for what you think is right for you. Before you know it, you will find yourself where you always wanted to be!

 

Introduction to BDSM for Crossdressers

 

I hope this brief post has helped you get to know a little more about BDSM and how to prevent the experience from going sideways. I believe that we all have the right to explore ourselves and BDSM relationships are a great way to do so. Your exploration of feminine sensations will see a big boost once you enter this world! Let me know in the comments what you think and I would love to know if you had any experience with BDSM. Also, I would love to know what are your favorite feminization scenarios to experience BDSM! Take good care of yourselves, sweeties!

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  1. Though I am generally a total submissive maid/doll, I do have a very dominant side I would love to try. I would love a submissive couple of cross dressers to work against each other. Manipulating them and disciplining them and using them to see who will submit the furthest. One orgasm for two sissies, they push each other to obey and serve. One wins and then I would give the pleasure to the loser just to see the disappointment. Would be wonderful to be a mistress

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