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How to be an attractive crossdresser?

Male to female crossdressing can mean wearing silicone breast forms underneath your clothes or going as far as shaving your whole body and getting hundreds of dollars’ makeover. It is entirely up to you. If you want to look stunning and pass as a genetic woman, there are 8 tips can make you more attractive.

#1 Accept yourself

Self-acceptance is the foundation for living a better life. Regardless of what anyone else might think, there is nothing wrong with wanting to dress/look like a woman. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. You are not a freak. You are 100% the standard, normal, wonky human being that everyone else is. Crosssdressing is not a disorder, there is nothing wrong with you. Trying to bury or ignore a fundamental part of your personality will only lead to depression and darkness. It took me a while to accept myself, but if I can do it, so can you.


#2 Figure out what you need

Sometimes it’s hard to figure out what you need. Sit down and think about what you need the most. Some crossdressers only want to take things as far as wearing panties under their regular clothes. Others feel it necessary to go out and about into the world fully dressed. And there’s plenty more people in-between. All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them. The only place where our dreams become impossible is your thinking.

#3 Determine what makes you truly happy

There’s no waste to life if you’re happy living it. Your happiness is the root of your desires. So take a few moments and really think about what makes you happy. If you want to go out dressed, you can! But take baby-steps, and always consider your safety. If you feel like you’re in an area where you don’t think you’ll be accepted, take a vacation to somewhere better! Move! Change jobs! Meet new people who don’t care what you wear, but only care who you are as a person. It’s your life. You’re not hurting anyone. You have the right to be happy, and ability to make it happen. As the saying goes- those who matter don't mind and those that mind don't matter. 

#4 Embrace the natural beauty within you

Some girls will always be prettier than you. Although sometimes I have severe issues with how I look, and will always look at other girls and think to myself “I wish I was as pretty as her”. I’m pretty certain I don’t pass in real life, but you know what – that’s ok. I’m taller than most girls when I’m wearing flats, and I almost always wear high heels, which puts me way above the norm. I have somewhat wide shoulders and an indelicate jaw, and I don’t even try doing a feminine voice. But, as it turns out, most people will either not notice at all, or glance over curiously for a moment or two before they get back to their own lives.

#5 Exercising and eating healthy food

Exercising and eating healthy food can make you feel good about the choices you make for yourself. Many sisters don’t realize that the skin is our largest organ. It needs caring for both inside and out. To help it look beautiful, please feed it properly, with lots of water and vitamins. Also, ensure that you get enough sleep and don’t overdo the alcoholic drinks! Taking care of yourself and your body is one of the most essential ways to look beautiful. 

#6 Start moisturizing every day

Cleansing your face and getting rid of skin dirt may not actually be enough to improve the condition of your skin, which is why it is important to moisturize it every day. Even if you have oily skin, moisturizing can prevent your body from excreting excess oil and help lock in moisture to keep the surface of your skin even and smooth. Always wanted your skin to be as smooth as a baby's bum? Start moisturizing every day! 

#7 True confidence comes from practicing

The more you do to prepare, the less fear and anxiety you’ll have. An appropriate amount of makeup can really add to your looks. I have some reasonable makeup skills now, but I didn’t used to. It took time, and patience to get to a point where I felt like I could apply my own makeup. I love the confidence that makeup gives me. In order to be pulled off in an effective and convincing manner, dressing a male as a female requires a great deal of effort. Choosing the right clothing to conceal masculine traits, understanding sizing, and selecting the best foundation garments can help turn an ordinary Joe into an extraordinary JoAnn.

#8 Smiling makes us attractive

The best makeup is smile. Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy. Smile. Whether you feel like smiling or not, it makes you feel and look better, and other people respond better to you as well.

Even we living in a “tag” generation, but we can also get rid of prison to be yourself. No matter of gender, rich or poor, come on, use your short life to write millions of amazing stories!

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