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7 tips to make your behavior more feminine

You may not be able to change your height or your body figure, but the good news is that crossdresser can change your behavior. As elegant manners make you look more feminine, and that does not require beautiful clothing or  pretty appearance. Just Make full use of the following 7 techniques to make your manners more elegant:


1. Keep your knees together and your elbows in

I know you’ve probably heard from Day 1, but it’s easy to let old habits slip in – especially if you spend most of your time in “guy mode.” That’s why it’s important to be conscious of keeping your knees together and your elbows in.

Why elbows in? Because it’s easy to be clumsy when your limbs are spread out all over the place. Keeping your elbows close to your body will instantly make your gestures more graceful.



 2. Slow down

It’s common to speed up your movements when you feel nervous or self-conscious. This can make you appear jerky and clumsy.

To look more poised, avoid rushed movements. Every move you make should be deliberate and precise. Take your time as you sit down, stand up, gesture, and reach for things.



3. Stretch out

It’s impossible to move gracefully if you have a tense and tight body. That’s one reason why dancers spend so much time stretching.

You too should make stretching part of your normal routine – particularly before you present yourself as a woman.



4. Study graceful women

There’s a lot to be learned from studying poised, elegant women. Pay attention to the way they move and carry themselves in public.



5. Don’t fidget

Fidgeting makes you look awkward and insecure, so avoid nervous movements like:

Twirling your hair

Biting your nails

Shaking your leg

Tapping your fingers

Compulsively checking your phone

Instead, practice the art of graceful stillness! You will look confident and in control of yourself.



6. Practice

Finally, remember that being graceful takes practice. I recommend practicing your movements and gestures in front of a mirror. Or, better yet, record a video of yourself so you can evaluate your movements objectively.

Here are some specific movements to practice:

Sitting down

Standing up

Gesturing as you speak

Greeting other people with a hand shake or air kiss

Table manners

Getting into and out of a car


7. Take dance classes

If you’re really serious about becoming a graceful, elegant woman, then I highly recommend taking dance classes. The grace and coordination you’ll learn through dancing will carry over into your day-to-day life.

Any type of dance class is helpful, be it belly dance, salsa, or ballet. If you’re shy about showing up for instruction en femme, take salsa classes in “male mode.” You’ll still get some awesome hip movement training!


Constantly adjust our manners to make our bodies more coordinated, so that we will be more more graceful and feminine. Let's be an elegant woman !


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