7 Crossdressing Tricks to Channel Your Feminine Energy

Do you feel your mannerisms are too crude?

Are you worried you are not connecting with your feminine energy?

For many of us, crossdressers/trans/non-binary, being in touch with our inner woman is still difficult.

Yet, we need to feel that connection with that crucial part of ourselves.

Changing your habits, clothes and mannerisms doesn’t occur overnight; femininity must be nurtured.

We can incorporate little things into our day-to-day life to keep our feminine energy healthy flowing through us, like pampering ourselves with a bubble bath, a spa day, taking care of our skin or cooking, to name a few.

In the article ahead, I will help you find what kind of activities help keep you in touch with your feminine side.

Dancing, cooking and caring for your skin and body are some universes we will delve into; helping us connect with our inner femininity.

Join me on this beautiful journey!

1. The clothes make the (wo)man

First off, clothes reflect a lot of our feelings and mood.

They stay in touch with our bodies throughout the day and connect our inner selves with the world.

Wearing female clothes will do wonders in helping you keep in touch with your feminine side.

Not only that, but they will also force you to move in certain ways, learning how to move like a woman, increasing its effectiveness even further.

Wearing a skirt or a dress is a clear example, as you must adapt your mannerisms and move, forcing more feminine moves.

Combine that with high heels, and you understand what I’m discussing.

If you are starting to build your own wardrobe, or even if you have one already, adding a woman’s pajamas to it, like a slip or camisole, it’s a great way to be in touch with your feminine energy through the night.

The greatest thing about this part is that it allows us to connect with our feminal feelings in so many different ways through PJ’s, dresses, underwear, blouses, shoes, heels, etc., permitting finding our own style and personality along the process.

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If you have any doubts about what size of shoes or clothes fits you, there are a lot of articles on this website for you to read and fill your wardrobe with new feminine clothes!

2. Incorporate delicate mannerisms

Mannerisms are for sure, along with the voice, the hardest thing to change and adapt.

The intonation of your voice, the movement of your hands, and the way you walk are examples of things that are ever present in our lives, and we do unconsciously.

Doing them femininely will favor our connection with our feminal feelings.

Don’t be hard on yourself if you are not as feminine as you would like: dedication to this mindset will, in time, get you exactly where you want to be.

For starters, you will have to find female celebrities or inspirations you have.

Pay close attention to the movements of the body and hands, the way they walk, sit and stand, facial expressions and the intonation of the voices.

Feminine women speak with the whole body, which we must incorporate.

Femininity includes being empathetic and observational, so I would recommend watching videos of the person you want to emulate mannerisms.

I’m sure you’ll incorporate some womanly movements before you know it!

I highly recommend you read this article; it will be extremely helpful for you to improve your feminine deportment.

3. Learn to dance

Speaking of movements, there are few other better ways for our body to learn how to move with more feminine than dancing.

Dancing involves the movement of our whole body in a coordinated and elegant way.

This will help us incorporate feminal movements and delicacy into our body language in our everyday life.

Picking a definitely feminine routine or dance style will canalize these feelings, sensations and emotions through your body making you feel better with them.

You can do this by going to a dance class or with a YouTube video with some friends.

Dancing will not only help your mannerisms and body expression to be more feminine but also, it is a healthy and fun way for doing cardio.

Furthermore, attending class will make you more confident about your feminine feelings.

4. Shape your mind and body

Have you ever heard of the phrase ‘’mens sana in corpore sano’’, it’s Latin for ‘’healthy mind in a healthy body’’.

It implies that mind and body work as one, so if we nurture a feminine state of mine, it is only fair to do the same with our bodies.

Regarding physical activities, picking up a ‘’traditional’’ woman sport, like pilates, yoga or such, will keep you fit and healthy, helping you achieve a more feminine body since these are thought of with the female clientele in mind.

Besides, socializing with other women, as you are most likely to find such activities wherever you go to practice, will help you relate better with them, and maybe you will even gain some new girlfriends to go shopping with!

You should bookmark this article about 9 easy exercises for crossdressers to achieve a more feminine-looking body.

5. The art of cooking

Cooking is an interesting way to nurture your feminine side by connecting not only to your senses but also with your tastes and those close to you.

When we cook, we embark on a journey filled with sensory stimuli that broaden our links with the world around us.

Not only that, but also learning how to cook dishes from different parts of the globe will bring you closer to different cultures from your own while keeping you healthy. It’s amazing how traditions and localization affect how people eat.

You can also cook while listening to music, podcast or catching up with your favorite TV show, further helping you connect with your feminine side.

6. The importance of self care

Adding a ritual of self-care and to our routine is perfect because it will not only help us look more beautiful and content with our bodies but also will permit us the time to get in touch with all the feminine energy within ourselves.

This can be done in many different ways, but once you go down the path of loving and taking care of yourself, you will only want more and more!

For instance, incorporating a face care routine into your day-to-day life, a spa day every once in a while, skincare or long bubble baths with relaxing music and candles.

These are some examples of habits that allow our femininity to express itself.

Wearing perfume is also a great way to let our inner woman manifest through the smell.

As human beings, we associate very strongly odors to memories and feelings; that’s why wearing a feminine fragrance or even one that’s unisex helps us connect with our feminal selves.

7. Empathy

For many of us that grew up as boys and men, despite how we really feel inside, being empathetic is not a trait that is encouraged.

Masculinity promotes rivalry and competition from the beginning, and sometimes, that is hard to get out of our systems.

Women are naturally more empathetic towards other people, plants, animals and the world around them in general.

Working on our empathy towards the outside world will strengthen the links with people we love and help us boost our emotional intelligence.

To do this, you should start by compromising more with the connection you have with yourself and others, listening to the person or people you are talking with, complimenting them, being honest, direct and polite, don’t forget to be kind with animals, plants and the world, a lady is not reticent to help someone who’s in need; femininity is about connecting through kindness with everything and everyone around us.

If you start by doing this, you will quickly feel closer to the people you love, and your bond will strengthen, learning how to love yourself better!

Nurturing our feminine side and connecting with those feelings that sometimes are kept hidden is not always easy, but as we can see, there are many ways to express our femininity in subtle ways, and that also allows time for personal growth.

Permitting ourselves to connect with that part of us daily will quickly make us happier!

Summing up, those are things you can do to keep in touch with your femininity.

Do you have a ritual of your own?

How do you connect with your feminine side?

Is it something you think you should do more often?

Do you think I missed something?

If you liked it and found it helpful, please comment below.

So that’s all for today, my dearies; I hope you are doing great and taking care of yourselves!

See you soon!

Written by Tina Munova